after a year... i'm welcoming myself back into blogging... geessshh... new environment... new friends.... first question is??? why am i doing this???.... still dunno, maybe because i wanted the world to know that i exist... that somewhere, there's a gurl who speaks what's on her mind.... crazy me, i don't even have an idea of what to put here... my story, my friends story... well, let me tell you a little something about myself.... was born in manila 36 years ago.. (arrghh... not that old)... likes to listen to old songs... (of course) loves brewed coffee, can watch sex and the city over and over again..... and still believe in superman... hehehe... mushy type of gurl who just loves to be around with people... crybaby... i go crazy with lays salt and vinegar.. (love it!) and can just sit all day just checking out my friends picture on friendster... yup, i love to check out your pictures on friendster... like, i'm in your world when i see you on those pics... hmmm.... maybe enough of this stuff, i'm just sure glad i'm back here.....

 

wow... i guess it's been awhile since i last visited my own blog.... grabe.....dami ng nangyare..... good times... bad times.... just celebrated our 9th year anniversary... gleng-gleng.... inspite of the many trials that have come our way, still the love is strong... more stronger than ever..... looking back, i did'nt know it would really last this long.... i thought, i would give up, he would give up... but everything turned out more ok....abangan na lang natin ang sususnod na kabanata ng buhay ko..... in the meantime, i'm happy to say that in my own little way i have worked hard in this relationship and thanks God! we did survived it......

see you next time.........

 

The ten types of relationship that won't
work:

1. You care about your partner more than he
does about you.
2. Your partner cares more about you than you do about him.
3. You are in love with your partner's potential.
4. You are on a rescue mission.
5. You look up to your partner as a role model.
6. You are infatuated with your partner for external reasons.
7. You have partial compatibility.
8. You choose a partner in order to be rebellious.
9. You choose a partner as a reaction to your previous partner.
10. Your partner is unavailable.

The six BIGGEST mistakes we make in the
beginning of a relationship:

1. We don't ask enough questions.
2. We ignore warning signs of potential problems.
3. We make premature compromises.
4. We give in to Lust Blindness.
5. We give in to material seduction.
6. We put Commitment Before Compatibility.

Seven Wrong Reasons to be in a Relationship:

1. Pressure(age, family, friends, etc.)
2. Loneliness and desperation
3. Sexual hunger
4. Distraction from your own life
5. To avoid growing up
6. Guilt
7. To fill up your emotional or spiritual emptiness.


The Lust into Love Formula:

1. First, you feel powerful sexual chemistry with someone or, in raw terms,lust.
2. Next, you act on those urges and have sex with that person.
3. Then you experience some guilt or discomfort having been so sexually intimate with someone
you aren't that emotionally connected with.
4. Finally you create a relationship with that person to legitimize your lust.

Five Realities about Love:

1. Love is not enough to make a relationship work -it needs compatibility and it needs commitment.
2. It just takes a moment to experience infatuation,but true love takes time.
3. It is possible to experience true love with more than one person -there are many potential
partners you could be happy with.
4. The right partner will fulfill many of your needs but not all of them.
5. Good sex has nothing to do with true love, but making love does.

Five Deadly Myths about Love:

1. True love conquers all.
2. When it's really true love, you will know it the moment you meet the other person.
3. there is only one true love in the world who is right for you.
4. the perfect partner will fulfill you completely in every way.
5. when you experience powerful sexual chemistry with someone, it must be love.

Fatal flaws to watch out for in a partner:

1. Addictions.
2. Anger.
3. Victim consciousness.
4. Control freak
5. Sexual Dysfunction.
6. Hasn't grown up.
7. Emotionally unavailable.
8. Hasn't recovered from past relationships.
9. Emotional damage from childhood.

Here are seven compatibility time bombs that can
destroy a relationship:

1. Significant age difference.
2. Different religious background.
3. Different social, ethnic, or educational background.
4. Toxic in-laws.
5. Toxic ex-spouse.
6. Toxic Stepchildren.
7. Long-distance relationships.

Six qualities to look for in a mate:

1. Commitment to personal growth.
2. Emotional openness
3. Integrity
4. Maturity and responsibility
5. High self-esteem.
6. Positive Attitude towards life

"TRUE LOVE cannot be found where it does not
truly exist, nor cannot be hidden where it truly
does."

They'd known each other since their school days and had since become the
best of friends. They shared everything and anything and spent lots of
time together in and after school. But the friendship never developed
into anything deeper. Diane kept a secret: her admiration and love for  Jack.
She had her reasons for keeping it a secret. FEAR. Fear of rejection...
fear that he might not feel the same... fear that he might
not want to be her best friend anymore... fear of
losing someone that she could always find comfort in. At least if she
kept her feelings to herself she would still be able to spend time with
him... and hopefully, he would be the one to tell her how he felt towards
her. Time passed, and soon school was over. Jack and Diane went
separate ways. Jack continued his studies overseas, while Diane got
herself a job. They still kept in touch though... penned letters, sent
each other photographs, and mailed each other gifts. Diane longed for Jack to be
back. She decided that she would tell him her feelings once he got back.
And then out of the blue... the mails from Jack stopped coming. Diane
wrote to him, but there was never a reply. Where was he? What happened?
Lots of questions ran through her mind... Two years passed and Diane was
still hopeful that Jack would come back... or at least send her a note.
And then her prayers were answered. One mid-August day, she received a
note from Jack. It said:

Diane, I have a surprise for you. I'm flying over.
Meet me at the airport. My flight comes in at 4pm on Saturday. I can't wait to see you
again! There's something I need to tell you, something I've been keeping
inside all this time. Love & Kisses, Jack

Diane's fingers shook as she read the note. Her heart soared. Diane  was thrilled.
Love and kisses... it meant a lot for a lady who had waited so long for t hose words. She was ecstatic!

The day arrived, and Diane waited anxiously for Jack. She had slipped
into her best dress, and did her best to look as
pretty as she could. She looked around... but Jack was nowhere in sight.
She waited and waited, wondering what she would say to Jack when he
got there, what their meeting would be like. Would there be love in his eyes? Would
there be longing, bred from years of separation and hiding each others feelings?

Oh, how she longed to see him! How she longed to throw her arms around
him and tell him she was a fool to ever let him go without ever telling
him how she felt! And she was certain Jack felt it too. There was always
a certain magic about them when they were together.

Then a lady in a sexy, tight, blue dress approached her. She had a very
concerned look on her face, "Hi! I'm Lynn, a friend of Jack. Are you
Diane?" she asked. Diane just nodded her head.

"I'm afraid I... I have bad news for you. Jack is not coming... he won't
be coming back anymore," said the lady, placing a hand on Diane's
shoulder. Diane shook her head in confusion. She felt her heart constrict.

What could possibly have happened? Diane felt an overwhelming fear
inside her. Her hands turned cold. Her voice shook as she asked:
"Where... where's Jack? What happened to him? Please tell me..."

Diane begged the lady...

The lady looked intently at Diane... and then she gave Diane a nudge on
the shoulder and said...





"HOY GAGA! IT'S ME, JACK... JACKILYN!! DI MO VAH AKO NAKILALA?! ANG
GANDA-GANDA KO NGAYON, DI VAAAAH?! ECHUSERA KA NAMAN MASYADO SISTER!
KAKALOKA KAH HUH!! TEKA, SANDALI... MEET MY 'PAPA'!!"

Kawawang Diane, hindi lang nawasak ang puso...
inapak-apakan pa ng
lintik na Jack, este Jackilynn pala!

Kakapagod... hanggang ngayon kumikirot pa ang aking mga muscles... actually fat... hehehe.... mantakin mo namang ngayon na lang ulit ako na practice sa badminton.... tagal ko na rin di naka paglaro noh... buti na lang nanalo kami.... at least worth it.... magaling din syempre mga kalaban.. kungbaga veteran in the field kaya ayun mejo nahirapan kami nung partner ko..... so far, the best sportsfest that i've attended kase ginawang 2 teams lang.... dati kase apat.. so sobrang tagal.... well, over-all winner lang naman ang team namin kaya me 5,000 kaming pang kain sa congo grille... o diba.. saya... kinabukasan d ako makatayo.. aray... aray.... aray.... alaxan nga....nyahahahaha!!!!

Tama ba namang ang unang wentong gusto kong i-post eh mawala lang ng ganun ganun.......Kainis!!!!! mantakin niyo namang ang haba haba ng sinulat ko.. feel na feel ko pa naman ang una kong obra.. pag click ko ng publish eh wala... grrrrr!!!!! hay!!!! sinusubukan ata ako ng sarili ko.... sige i'll make this one short and simple... pero pramis, babawi ako.... and next time, i'lll have the last smile... hihihihi....

Welcome to my crazy world!!!! I could not believe that I will be having my own nook here.. well, sino ba naman ang mag aakalang pati ako eh mahihikayat ni aldous na gumawa ng sarili kong site... naisip ko, sino ba naman ang magkakaron ng tyagang magbasa ng mga frustrations, kuro-kuro, comment, hinaing, ligaya at kung ano ano pa na nararamdaman ko....malamang si aldous na rin dahil lagi ko siyang i reremind na basahin ang blog ko... o diba..... eniwey, sit back, relax, enjoy, and have a pleasant trip to my crazy little world...........